How to Create Change in Your Life – AUTHENTICITY IS THE KEY

Tired of the way your life is going? Are you depressed, weary, frustrated or just bored?

AUTHENTICITY IS THE KEY

I have heard from so many people who I coach and counsel that they want something more, something different happening in their lives. They are not satisfied with the way things are for them.

You can start anew – right now, this minute! You can make shifts that open the way to much more satisfaction in your life.

Want to know how? Authenticity is the KEY! What it takes is BEING REAL. Stop trying to be the way others want or expect you to be if that’s not true for you. If you are not being honest with yourself or others, but instead are trying to please your parents, teachers, colleagues, or friends then you are pretending. It’s as though you are playing a game rather than being your Authentic Self.

EXPERIENCE THE TOTALITY OF LIFE

I encourage you to put ‘INAUTHENTIC’ pretending in the back seat and step forward telling your truth, being in your Core, giving up the games. Sounds easy? Sometimes it is easy, but often the ego or the personality gets upset with you making such changes, fearing it will lose its identity or even die. The truth is, it’s not going to die. By facing and dealing with old patterns and issues you will be freed up to experience the totality of LIFE.

It’s time to GET REAL! This year and beyond, secrets don’t work. You’ve probably noticed individuals, companies and government officials being exposed for various kinds of wrong-doing. This is going to continue. If you are hiding who you truly are in any way, instead of keeping the REAL you a secret, you can choose to be honest, truthful and authentic.

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CLARITY IS ESSENTIAL

Ask yourself, “Who am I?” What do I really want?” Make a list of things you are doing that don’t really fit for you. Then make a list from your authentic self of what is true for you. What do you want? As you are asking these questions and making your lists, notice any fears that come up. By noticing the fears and still moving forward authentically, you are no longer stuck in the same old place, feeling worse and worse. Being True to Yourself is sometimes scary and keep in mind that the rewards are massive!

Know that you can make some changes instantly, but in many cases, it takes time to shift into new ways of being. Your personality or your ego is not going to like this because it can’t pretend or hide. Be patient with yourself. Having clarity about what you want is very supportive of you being real.

I also encourage you to find some neutral, unbiased support from somebody who sees things from a high perspective. This person or people can help guide you on your journey to Being Real. You can consider coaching with me or connecting with other resources.

In addition to this blog, I also did an audio recording on my podcast, “Waking Up with Esateys” about STARTING ANEW – AUTHENTICITY IS THE KEY. For more information and an even greater depth please go to link to listen to the full episode.

LEARN HOW TO CREATE CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE

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Feel free to connect with me below. I welcome your comments and questions

Until next time.

Feel a Hug,

Esateys

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December 31, 2015

Brush Prairie Relationship Therapy

Relationship Counseling in Brush Prairie

Brush Prairie Relationship Therapy

Have you wanted to improve your relationships with others … or even yourself? At our Ultimate Relationship Academy we offer Brush Prairie relationship therapy that is sure to make your life less stressful and your relationships more fulfilling.
Even your relationship with money affects your life, as well as relationships with others including your significant other, and children. With our help at Ultimate Relationship Academy we can help you discover your new mindset for living. We will be able to help you end the stress and anguish in your life. Just think about what you could do and accomplish, and how much better you would feel if you were not having to deal with relationship anguish each and every day. When you come to us for Brush Prairie relationship therapy you are taking your first giant step toward discovering your bigger life purpose and living your life in an inspirational and stress-free manner.

When you come to our Ultimate Relationship Academy for Brush Prairie relationship therapy, we will support you as you learn to experience real joy and happiness as you experience your relationship transformation. We help people realize that your relationship will not make you happy and complete – it is what you do from within that really steers your life. We will help you make the important changes in your life, such as releasing unconscious beliefs and ultimately fully understanding who you truly are. We will help you to become a Visionary of your own Life. We will help you explore the many relationships in your life including your relationship with self; relationship with your body; relationship with others; relationship with money; relationship with career; and relationship with giving. We will help you learn how to reach a state of Awareness and Connection and help you to learn who you really are. Our full goal is to help you see life from a new, expanded viewpoint – when this occurs you will experience pure joy and happiness. Our program has been fully designed by Esateys and Rafael Stuchiner – co-founders of our Ultimate Relationship Academy. Programs are available to be listened to again and again to help you experience your full relationship transformation.

Ultimate Relationship Academy
Brush Prairie, WA 98606
Phone: (503) 862-2069

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August 17, 0208

ENJOY BEING YOURSELF!

Have you read my previous blog or listened to my podcast about OUT OF THE BOX THINKING? If you did, how did you respond to it? Were you thinking, “Yay! Give me more of this radical thinking! I’m excited!” or did you say to yourself, “No way! This is ridiculous! My friends would think I’m nuts if I talked about this stuff.” I invite you to consider what is true for you at your deepest core level and ENJOY giving yourself the gift of BEING YOURSELF.

ENJOY BEING YOURSELF

Let me explain where I’m coming from. When I sit down to share with you, I really have no control over what comes through me from my True Core Essence. It just flows. When I do that, I feel relief, deep peace and harmony throughout my being. If I were to judge or censor what comes through so I might please others, I would be likely to feel agitated, irritated or even angry. My body would feel uncomfortable.

How about you? Can you remember a time when you held back your real feelings or thoughts in order to get others’ approval? How did you feel inside? Compare those feelings with a time when you spoke your truth. Which time gave you a greater sense of ease?

We are all the True Core Essence of All That Is. Our pretend selves, our personality/ego, is expressing in the way our core chooses. What if each of us were to allow the essence of who we are to express fully and completely? No more “Mom or Dad will be upset” or “Susie won’t like me anymore” if I say what I really feel and believe.

Perhaps if people felt free to express their truth fully instead of trying to please others we would have a world full of much happier people. Maybe it could be a world without so many shootings, wars, and other hurtful things that are currently happening.

THE PRETEND SELF HAS NO CONTROL

There isn’t really anything that the personality, the pretend self, can control. Your True Core Essence, your Source Point, your God (whatever your word is) creates your life. Your personality or pretend self likes to think it has some control, but it is just the façade for your Core and is truly without any control.

What if this were true? What if you let go of the idea that you have some control over what happens and you simply observe your life. What if you do not judge anything as right or wrong. Rather, just BE with what is.

I know that for many people, opening to these kinds of thoughts and this way of being puts them in a big freefall. Our personalities can be very resistant to recognizing they have no control. It’s ok to gradually move into this. A starting point is to ask yourself, “Is this true for me?”

Being open to your inner knowing and expressing honestly from your True Core Essence are ways to move into a new adventurous place in your life. Letting go of resistance can also allow for a more joyful and vibrant life.

I did an audio recording on my podcast, “Waking Up with Esateys” about having the FREEDOM TO BE YOURSELF. Please go to link to listen to the full episode.

Feel free to connect with me below. I welcome your comments and questions.

Until next time.

Feel a Hug,

Esateys

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Tired of the way your life is going? Are you depressed, weary, frustrated or just bored?

AUTHENTICITY IS THE KEY

CLARITY IS ESSENTIAL

Esateys

Relationship Counseling in Brush Prairie

Ultimate Relationship Academy Brush Prairie, WA 98606 Phone: (503) 862-2069

ENJOY BEING YOURSELF

THE PRETEND SELF HAS NO CONTROL

Ultimate Relationship Academy
Brush Prairie, WA 98606
Phone: (503) 862-2069